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SEX Sex is a key part of most relationships yet is a conversation topic some of us shy away from with partners. Raised not to discuss sex because it is an adult topic, we may find sex embarrassing and difficult to talk about when we reach adulthood. Talking with your partner openly about your desires and fantasies will not only help make them a reality but will also bring closeness and trust. The ideas below will help you start to understand each others likes and dislikes and create physical intimacy. Erotic Diary Keep an Erotic Diary. Both you and your partner keep a diary. Every time you have a sexual thought or fantasy about your partner write it down. Try to be as open and detailed as possible. Then once a month swap over diaries. This will enable you both to tell each other what you want openly without the embarrassment of actually saying the words face to face. Erotic Alphabets You will start with the letter “A” and caress or kiss the body part of your lover which starts with the letter “A”. Then your lover will move on to letter “B” and perform the same thing on you. You will be amazed by how the both of you can get to come out with a body part for every letter. Sexy Texts Text messaging is also a good way of expressing your desires without having to initially talk face to face. Why not text your partner whilst they are work to let them know you are thinking of them. The message could just be suggestive such as “I can’t wait for you to come home . . .” or you could sent a more graphic text describing your favourite sexual act and that it is going to take place that evening. Whatever you send it will get your partner going and thinking about you until they return home. Check out our Romantic Text ideas. Top 10! To spice things up why not try telling each other your top 10 favourite things to do in bed. It could be anything from kissing to bondage but the key is to be detailed. Going into detail about what you like and why, will help your partner understand how to please you. For example saying “I like it when you kiss my neck ..” is good but try to explain how you like it to be kissed, exactly where, how it feels and why you like it etc. Once you have told each other your top 10 try and perform half of each others to conclude the evening . . . Erotic Card Play Take a deck of cards and assign one naughty and erotic action to each number. For example, an ace is for a long kiss, etc. Now, spread the cards face down on your bed. You and your lover will take it in turns to draw the cards and whatever the card says to do; your lover must do it.
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